Not just a memoir!

In "Golden Grace," the author unfolds an evocative and profoundly moving narrative of resilience, strength, and the transformative power of faith. Set against the humble beginnings of a small African town, Yetunde's memoir invites us on a journey that spans continents and life's multifaceted challenges.

The book is a rich narrative of life experiences marked by the author's academic passion, creative flair, and unwavering faith. Yetunde's story is a poignant exploration of the complexities of love, the pain of heartbreak, and the resilience of the human spirit. Her life's narrative, from achieving academic excellence to enduring the trials of a toxic marriage, is a testament to her indomitable spirit and the grace that sustained her.

Yetunde's journey is one of contrasts – the joy of academic and creative success against the backdrop of failed relationships and societal pressures. Her memoir delves deep into the nuances of navigating love, cultural expectations, and the pursuit of personal dreams. It is a story of faith, resilience, and the transformative power of God's grace in the face of adversity.

"Golden Grace" transcends the boundaries of a traditional memoir. To those who have faced trials and tribulations, of those walking similar paths, it speaks about the depths of human endurance and the remarkable capacity for healing and growth. Yetunde's experiences resonate with the struggles of many, reminding us that amidst life's storms, there is always a guiding grace. Her story highlights the importance of faith, the power of perseverance, and the beauty of starting anew.

Join us in this remarkable journey, and be inspired to find your path of grace and resilience.

PREFACE(FOR MY SONS)

In the tapestry of life, every thread, every color, every knot is significant. Each contributes to the grand design that, only when stepped back and observed from a distance, reveals a picture more complex and beautiful than one could perceive up close. This memoir is one such tapestry woven from the threads of my life experiences—some bright with joy, others darkened by trials, but all saturated with the presence of God’s grace.

So, as I stand on the brink of my 50th birthday, I look back at the journey that has led me to this moment—a journey I have chosen to share with you in this memoir—a celebration of resilience, a testimony to the power of faith, and a reflection on the bittersweet complexities of life.

My narrative will guide you through diverse terrains—from my humble origins in Africa, navigating the naivety and complexities of youth against a backdrop of academic rigor, to achieving professional success across continents. From the whispers of prayer in tranquil sanctuaries to confronting the spiritual dilemmas faced as a pastor's wife, navigating the trials of an abusive marriage, and emerging into the limelight of academic recognition in America, this memoir is a mosaic of life's contrasting experiences. It encapsulates the journey of holding onto faith amid life's tremors and mustering the courage to embark anew when all hopes are lost.

As you turn these pages, know that I have hidden the names of the people and places involved. While the heart of the story remains valid, their identities have been kept secret to respect the lives intertwined with mine.

This book is for you if you have ever felt alone in your struggles, if you have ever sought strength to face another day, or if you have ever wondered if there is grace after heartbreak. May you find companionship, courage, and comfort in my story. May it remind you that no matter how tough life gets, there is always hope, a way forward, and grace waiting to be discovered.

With a spirit of gratitude for the past and graceful anticipation for the future,

Yetunde Longe-Folajimi, Ph.D.